Your smartphone camera is your friend. Also, witness marks, especially on rotating components that come apart...paint pen is helpfull
You will have to support the motor via the sump pan which is robust, blocks of wood will work well here. The torque conver houses 2 opposing fans and holds lots of fluid. When separating the gearbox from the engine, thread a heavy piece of baling wire across the torque converter and fasten so the TC will not slip off....they are heavy with fluid!